When someone’s life is easy and full of fun, they continue to live the same way, despite having a meaningless life, conforming to what society wants rather than building themselves. In Henrick Ibson play, A Doll House, Nora is portrayed as a toy to Torvald, but when she sees Torvald’s true character, she realizes what her life has become and leaves. Her entire life has been nothing but playing and having fun, and when she learns Torvald’s reputation precedes his love for her, she decides to no longer conform to society and leaves her children and husband for a life that means something. Nora’s interactions with others show she is too naive and privileged to realize that her life is meaningless, and when she realizes, she goes over the top to change it.
Nora’s naive actions and desire to have fun cause her to be a bad mother and to be bossed around by her husband, forcing her to have the life she didn’t want without her noticing. One interaction that shows her naive nature is her interaction with her children. She plays with them like a child, yet does not raise them. Instead of taking responsibility and parenting them, she only plays with them, leaving the parenting to the Nurse. This way of parenting, despite it being normal for the time, is not ideal for a child’s growth. Nora’s interactions with Torvald also show her naive, playful nature, for she is treated like a toy, being called things like song-bird and squirrel. These nicknames are constant throughout the play, and within the names, Torvald sneaks in orders of things Nora shouldn’t do. She has a long history of being someone who spends way too much of other people’s money, never saving it, showing she only cares about having fun and not the future. Her naive nature is also shown by her dancing, for Torvald makes her his doll, playing with her and making her dance whenever he feels like it, and she consistently conforms to her husband’s wishes, making her into the doll that she doesn’t want to be. Her interactions with other characters not only show that she is naive, but also that she has always been extremely privileged.
Nora’s privileged nature causes her to not care about her nurse and to keep secrets that ruin her relationship. Nora’s interaction with her nurse shows how privileged she is, for she sees the costume that she is to wear and wants to rip it to shreds immediately, while her nurse tries to comfort her. Also in this interaction, Nora disregards her nurse’s child, who she obviously misses and writes too, instead saying that Anne Marie was a good mother to her, showing that she does not care about the nurse’s daughter or that she misses her, but solely on herself. Finally, Nora uses her privileged nature to get out of taking care of the children. She already does not spend time with them unless she is playing, and she says she can’t see the kids anymore. The nurse makes it sound like the kids will forget about her, which is a terrible thing to think. Nora thinks that she is poisoning the kids with her actions, but since she is too privileged to even take care of them, this is never true. Along with her interactions with her nurse, her privilege is shown in any interaction about the incident that caused her to owe lots of money. Rather than telling her husband immediately, Nora is stuck up and tries to fix it herself, inevitably making it much worse when Torvald finds out. Had she not done this, her relationship would not have been ended like it did, however, not telling him caused her to find out Torvald’s true character.
When Torvald’s true character is discovered, Nora goes over the top by leaving her husband and children simply to have a more meaningful life. Instead of leaving, she could have been less naive, and instead actually take care of her kids and be honest with her husband. Also, rather than being privileged about everything, she could have been less self absorbed, which would eliminate her desire to hide the loan from Torvald. This, however, doesn’t happen, and instead she ditches her kids and husband rather than facing her problems head on. This idea in the play can be related to by rich people in the modern world, for they are so loaded on money that they destroy their relationships with their desire to have fun and their extreme privilege.

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